Impostor syndrome is the feeling that you’re a fraud—that you’re somehow less qualified, less deserving of success. There is the fear that you’ll be “found out," which may lead you to attempt to work longer and harder than others. This can be a source of resentment, exhaustion, and a sense of impending doom. While Impostor Syndrome is not solely the domain of alcoholics, many of us report deep attachments to perfectionism and, it's cousin, Impostor Syndrome. Many of us drank over our feelings of resentment and fear arising from the core belief that we were frauds. Now that we are sober, we can bring these fears into the light of truth. When we think, "I'm a fraud," instead of drinking, we ask, "Is that true?" We connect with our recovery communities and see the truth of our own self-worth reflected back at us in the faces of our sober friends. We learn to discard these old patterns of thinking and replace them with healthier, more balanced ones. In recovery, we find freedom from the tyranny of Impostor Syndrome.
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What an absolutely amazing show. They all are of course, but this one really spoke to me as I think it gets to the heart of so many of the reasons I personally drink. Perfectionism, Shame, Imposter Syndrome...so many of these kind of things come down to low self-esteem, feelings of unworthiness. And this show made me think that perhaps you all would consider doing a show about Transformation, essentially a gifts of sobriety focus, but specifically how did you change as a person after you got sober? What changes were surprising, what stayed the same, and esp. how did you work towards feeling more of your true worth?
ReplyDeleteAnyway, thank you so much for The Bubble Hour in general. What a gift to us all.
I agree with what you are saying here. I just recently found The Bubble Hour and it is really helping me look at things in my life and put words to things that I didn't know how to express before. I would love a transformation hour! You ladies are an inspiration and huge blessing to my life :)
DeleteSo glad the discussion resonated with you! I drank over all of those things as well. Great idea re: Transformation. I'll put it on the list for the next business meeting. Thank you for being with us!
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