Sunday, September 22, 2013

Shame. How It Hurts Our Recovery, And Ways To Overcome

Guilt and shame are frequently thought of as the same concept, and the terms are often used interchangeably, they seem to go hand in hand; however, they are not the same. 

Both emotions involve concepts of “wrong” behavior or having done something “wrong,” either by omission or commission. 

They also both involve negative emotions and feelings. On this show, we will explore the difference in these two heavy words. "Guilt says I've done something wrong; shame says there is something wrong with me. Guilt says I've made a mistake; shame says I am a mistake. Guilt says what did was not good; shame says I am no good." 

Shame is so common in recovery - especially early recovery. Coming to terms with the things we did while actively drinking is a big part of healing. In recovery, we face not just the reality of our own past actions, but the stigma that surrounds addiction as a whole. 

There is so much hope, though. By sharing our stories and our truths, we learn we are not alone, and the power of honesty and community help us move out of the darkness of shame and into the light of recovery.

Shame is one of the primary things that keeps people stuck in the cycle of addiction.  In this show we talk about some of the ways we deal with our own guilt and shame, through story and conversation. 

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1 comment:

  1. I think it is important to move on from our mistakes. Essentially, that is the only way to truly overcome an addiction. My mom was an alcoholic while my siblings and I were growing up. The hardest thing that she dealt with was the shame that you spoke of. It wasn't until she let go of the shame that she was able to overcome her alcoholism. http://www.alcoholismtreatment.com

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